MAKE LOVE AND ROMANCE, sex and spirituality, a happy goal in these times. We've found some good advice on keeping the spark in your relationship during times that can be challenging. Live your life and enjoy it. Make it sexy, romantic, and fun.

Sunday, January 25, 2009

The Sex Factor - Romance With Your Spouse After Children

By JB Owen-Sacallis




You know you're a mom when...you promise your husband tonight is the night, but you happily sneak up to bed, relieved that he fell asleep on the couch.



Not to gossip or anything, but a recent visit from a friend of mine resulted in us having a conversation about sex after a baby. Slowly her sexual drive has returned as her hormones have balanced out after pregnancy. Her four-month-old is happily sleeping in her own room now, giving mom and dad their personal privacy back. Doing better than I did, she's enjoying sex, but did say light-heartedly, "We did it last night, so I'm off the hook for a few days". Simultaneously we both laughed, kindred spirits in the fact that sex at the moment is not the most important thing on our list.

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5 Things You Should Know About Sex and Spirituality

By Conroy Reynolds




Sex is often portrayed in the popular culture as medium of ultimate pleasure and delight. Seldom is it seen as an expression of spirituality. However I believe a deeper consideration of this divine gift will broaden and deepen our spiritual dimensions.

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Saturday, January 24, 2009

Relationships and Sensuality - How to Become More Sensual

By Deb Allen




If I asked if you are a sensual person what would you say? What if I asked you if you love yourself? The reason for the second question is that the two go hand in hand. I will try to explain the connection between the two. The topic is important because becoming more sensual can enhance your relationship.



What Makes A Person Attractive?



I am sure that many people would answer the above question with a description of physical qualities. But in reality attractiveness comes from other qualities. In fact, people that display confidence and a loving and playful personality are usually considered to be attractive, regardless of their outward appearance.

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Friday, January 23, 2009

Sensual Awareness and Sensual Meditation

By Lisa Branscomb




What is Sensual Awareness?



Sensual awareness is attention to the senses and stimuli obtained from the senses. The terms sensual awareness and sensuality do not distinguish between negative stimuli (pain) or positive stimuli (pleasure). Sensual awareness and sensuality certainly have nothing to do with self-gratification, immorality, or overindulgence. Our senses provide the information by which we base all of our intuitive thoughts, creativity, and desires, as well as our clear problem solving ability. They help us to determine what is right and what is wrong for us far better than any holy book, psychologist, or pop culture. By becoming fully present in our sensual perceptions we become more sensitive to our passions, our inner compass, our personal truth, or what we call our core values. Core values are true and authentic and are not influenced by the values and judgments of others.

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Wednesday, January 21, 2009

5 Basic Things You Need To Know About Sexual Response

By Tara Few




When it comes to sex many of us spend more time in our own heads listening to a running commentary about the sexual impression we are making than we do really focusing on our partner. When your evaluation of your own sexual performance becomes more important than connecting with your sexual partner and making sure that your ‘performance’ is what they actually want, then you may find that you forget very basic knowledge about how bodies work sexually. The following list includes common mistakes that men and women make because they just aren't paying attention. Most of it you may already know but do you remember it all when you're actually having sex or do you let yourself get in your own way?

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Tuesday, January 20, 2009

7 Tricks for Lasting Longer in Bed - A Crash Course in Sexual Stamina

By Mukee Okan




My extensive experiences with tantric yoga, ancient sexuality practices, and contemporary western therapeutic paradigms have exposed me to many 'tricks-of-the-trade' when it comes to coming.



In this article I'll attempt to distill some of this simple but powerful wisdom. Hopefully men seeking to improve their sexual stamina, or even just to educate themselves sexually, can begin to use this as a roadmap for their quest. And a very worthy quest it is too, (speaking as a woman).



If there is one thing I cannot resist it is a man who is dedicated to learning more about his body and sexuality in general.

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